Family · Week 6 of 6

A Home That Points to God

Joshua 24:14-15, Psalm 78:1-8

Building a God-centered home

Main Point

The most powerful sermon your kids will ever hear is the life you live at home when nobody else is watching.

Application Ideas

Start one new family spiritual practice this week — a mealtime prayer, a bedtime Bible moment, or a weekly family worship time.

Discussion Questions

What does 'as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord' look like in modern life? How do we pass faith to the next generation without being legalistic?

Detailed Sermon Outline

Primary Text: Joshua 24:14-15

Supporting Texts: Psalm 78:1-8; Deuteronomy 11:18-19; 1 Peter 3:7

Big Idea: A home that points to God prioritizes faith above all else and intentionally designs family life around values that honor God and build strong relationships.

Target Length: 35-40 minutes

Introduction

Parenting is one of the most important callings you'll ever have, yet few of us feel prepared. We don't come with instruction manuals. We parent based on how we were parented, what we read, what we hear from others.

Scripture offers a vision for parenting that's both beautiful and challenging. Raise your children knowing God. Help them discover who they are in Christ. Model faith. Pass on the faith.

Whether you're struggling with a teenager, trying to instill values in a toddler, or grieving that your adult children have rejected what you taught, this series is for you.

I. You're Raising Arrows, Not Bowling Balls (Joshua 24:14-15)

Your children are not meant to be the same as you, with your same personality, same interests, same gifts. They're arrows. You launch them toward their own destiny.

Many parents live vicariously through their children. They push them toward what the parents wanted for themselves.
Biblical parenting is helping your children discover who God made them to be and then empowering them to go there.

Your job is not to control your children's future. Your job is to prepare them for it.

II. Faith Is Caught More Than Taught (Psalm 78:1-8)

You can teach your children about Jesus all day. But what they'll remember is how you lived. Your integrity. Your prayer life. How you handled difficulty.

Do your children see you reading Scripture? Praying? Forgiving? Trusting God when things are hard?
You don't have to be perfect. You just have to be real. Let them see you struggle. Let them see you turn to God.

The most powerful thing you can pass on to your children is not rules or beliefs, but a lived-out faith.

III. Discipline and Love Go Together (Deuteronomy 11:18-19)

'Train up a child in the way they should go.' Training requires discipline. Not punishment. Not harshness. But intentional guidance.

Children need boundaries. They need to learn that actions have consequences. They need loving correction.
But discipline without love is abuse. It hardens hearts and creates distance. Discipline with love builds relationship while teaching truth.

The question isn't whether to discipline. It's how to do it in a way that teaches and draws your child closer.

Appeal

If you're a parent, take your calling seriously. But don't take yourself so seriously that you crush your children's spirit.

Raise arrows. Model faith. Discipline with love. And trust that God cares about your children even more than you do.